For information about my sanctuary coaching offerings, go here.

For information about how I pair sanctuary coaching with kink, read on.

I got clean and sober in 1994 and discovered kink in 1997. My first scene was me reciting the twelve steps and whenever I missed a word, I got flogged. For someone who had kicked heroin, crack, cocaine, and alcohol, finding kink was both a spiritual awakening and an incredibly satisfying way to get high.

I have been a card-carrying member of The Exiles since 1998 and I've participated in all parts of BDSM--the BD, the D/s, and the SM. I have topped, bottomed, and switched mid-scene.

I lived in San Francisco for 30 years and have played in probably every dungeon in the city. In 2015 I moved to Oakland, bought a house, and established The Altar to Black Kink in October 2021. My dining room is a play space and it gets regular use.

You know what else should get regular use? Your writing.

Kink can be a space for pleasure, joy, and fun, but it's also more than that: it's a playground for self-discovery, empowerment, naming our truths, and the expansive freedom that only a strong container can bring. I can help you create that container and I can also hold you to the standards that you will set. There will be consequences if you don't. We will make them together. We will negotiate the terms, you will immerse yourself in your creativity, and we will have aftercare where we'll look back on how far you've come since you started your journey.

If you need someone to spark your writing practice, then let's be in touch.

Black and Indigenous people: $150/hour

Other BIPOC: $200/hour

White people: $300/hour

Email me at tijanna.eaton@gmail.com.

Hurry up.